In My Two Elaines, Marty Schreiber shares his journey with his high school sweetheart, Elaine, detailing the emotional and practical challenges of being her husband and caregiver as Alzheimer's gradually took her away. The book offers thoughtful guidance on caring for someone with Alzheimer's while prioritizing the caregiver's own well-being. Through patience, resilience and a touch of humor, Marty role models how love endures as he cares for his "second" Elaine.
About the Presenter
Former Wisconsin Governor Martin J. Schreiber is a dedicated advocate for Alzheimer’s caregivers and individuals with dementia. Sharing his experiences nationwide, Marty brings humor and compassion to his talks, drawing from his journey as a caregiver for his late wife, Elaine, who was diagnosed with Alzheimer's disease in 2007. His speaking engagements at conferences, civic organizations, and senior communities often feel like support group meetings, leaving caregivers with the encouragement and hope they need to courageously tackle their responsibilities.
Marty's book, My Two Elaines: Learning, Coping, and Surviving as an Alzheimer’s Caregiver (mytwoelaines.com), has received widespread praise from the caregiving community and listed among Caregiving.com’s “best caregiver books.” His touching memoir provides heartfelt, humorous and invaluable guidance to help caregivers better survive and provide the best care possible for their loved ones. Thousands have been moved and inspired by Marty's book, making it a must-share resource with friends and families navigating the Alzheimer's journey.
During his time caring for Elaine, Marty played an important role in the launch of Operation: Stronger Together with the Alzheimer’s Association. This initiative has connected many families to essential education and resources across Wisconsin and beyond.
Marty's commitment to older adults extends back to his 16 years in public service as a state senator, lieutenant governor, and the 39th governor of Wisconsin. His efforts have focused on elderly concerns, improving nursing home care, and developing in-home community care programs. Marty and Elaine, who passed away in 2022, are the parents of four children, thirteen grandchildren, and six great-grandchildren.